I want my child to go to a normal school ....

Why? why would we want to set our kids up to fail? and they will in a normal school setting, for the simple fact that there not normal kids, they dont laern like normal kids, they dont act like normal kids, so why in the world would we treat them like normal kids? oh.....i see ... its not for the kids that we want them in normal schools, its for us, i get it now, is it a coping mechanism for us? the parents? a stage of denial maybe ? i think we all go through it at some point.....its our wish not theirs, they dont care what school they go to , they just want to be, they have no desire for a normal school...why should we...instead of pushing for our kids to go to this normal school maybe we should fight to have better schools for later years, what we fail to realize is that our kids are only gonna be getting help until a certain point, and then we really are on our own....we are then left with a special needs adult that no one wants to help only us,because even if there fifty years old their our kids, our flesh and blood, due to the fact that there is no service available for our autistic adults, they are forgotten, why? because we as parents are selfish and blind . Its up to us to fight for these kids for life, fooling ourselves into thinking that their gonna do just fine is exactly that, fooling ourselves.

Its great that everyone wants to promote autism awareness, yet no one seems to be aware that this is whats going to happen, i know its hard to take in, it was for me, i cry sometimes for my kids, and worry for them, i sometimes feel that im not good enough a parent to bring them through life, and if i can, then whos going to help them when im gone? dont you remember hearing that its a lifelong developmental delay? lifelong is exactly that.....we as parents need to start fighting now while our kids are young to put in place some kind of support system for our kids transition into adult hood, if we fail to do this then we as parents have failed or kids....